Bearing the unbearable : love, loss, and the heartbreaking path of grief / Joanne Cacciatore ; foreword by Jeffrey B. Rubin, PhD.
Organized into fifty-two short chapters, Bearing the Unbearable is a companion for life's most difficult times, revealing how grief can open our hearts to connection, compassion, and the very essence of our shared humanity. Dr. Joanne Cacciatore - bereavement educator, researcher, Zen priest, and leading counselor in the field - accompanies us along the heartbreaking path of love, loss and grief. Through moving stories of her encounters with grief over decades of supporting individuals, families, and communities - as well as her own experience with loss - Cacciatore opens a space to process, integrate, and deeply honor our grief.
Record details
- ISBN: 9781614292968 (pbk. : alk. paper)
- ISBN: 1614292965 (pbk. : alk. paper)
- Physical Description: 222 pages ; 23 cm
- Publisher: Somerville, MA : Wisdom Publications, [2017]
Content descriptions
General Note: | Includes index. |
Formatted Contents Note: | The role of others in our grief -- Public and private grief -- Ritual and artistic expressions of grief -- Nurtrient-deficient soil -- Cultural sensitivity -- Bearing the unbearable -- Pause, reflect, and feel meaning -- The terror beneath the terror -- The pursuit of happiness and the unity of opposites -- Bypassing grief, bypassing love -- Intensity and coping -- Contraction and expansion -- The collision of love and loss -- Boundless and timeless love -- Personifying grief -- Pausing with grief -- The practice of being with -- My heart cried many tears -- The barefoot walkabout -- The vitality of self-care -- Self-care and slee -- Ways to care for yourself -- Telling family and friends what we need -- Self-care as a distraction -- Learning, adapting, and trusting intuition -- Re-grieving -- Surrendering and stretching -- When we fragment -- Duration of grief -- The courage to remember -- Joining hands -- The power of unprocessed traumatic grief -- Silenced for decades -- Guilt and shame -- Inward and outward -- Works of love -- Waves of grief -- "Remember me," she said -- Ritual and microritual -- Meaning through compassionate action -- Kindness projects -- Through knowing suffering -- Fierce compassion -- The horse chemakoh -- The price of unrealized grief and trauma -- Transgenerational grief -- Grief broth -- The darkness has its gifts -- What I know. |
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Subject: | Grief. Loss (Psychology) Adjustment (Psychology) Love. |
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Location | Call Number / Copy Notes | Barcode | Shelving Location | Status | Due Date |
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Kirtland Community College Library | BF 575 .G7 C33 2017 | 30775305523418 | General Collection | Available | - |