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The 100/0 principle : the secret of great relationships / by Ritter, Al.;
Subjects: Interpersonal relations.;
© c2010., Simple Truths, LLC,
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Why we click : the emerging science of interpersonal synchrony / by Murphy, Kate,author.https://id.oclc.org/worldcat/entity/E39PCjrtvqqqx4gkcyXfWFpPFC;
Includes bibliographical references (pages [225]-294) and index."Why do you immediately click with some people while others just as inexplicably turn you off? Do people emit vibes? Is it possible to read a room? Are bad habits contagious? Kate Murphy, author of the international bestseller You're Not Listening, answers these and other fascinating questions in Why We Click, the first book that explores the emerging science and outsized impact of interpersonal synchrony, the most consequential social dynamic most people have never heard of. Interpersonal synchrony is the seemingly magical, yet now scientifically documented, tendency of human beings to fall into rhythm and find resonance with one another. Not only do we subconsciously match one another's movements, postures, facial expressions, and gestures, recent breakthroughs in technology have revealed we also sync our heart rates, blood pressure, brain waves, pupil dilation, and hormonal activity. The result is that emotions, moods, attitudes, and subsequent behaviors can be as infectious as any disease and can have just as profound an impact on our health and well-being. Interweaving science, philosophy, literature, history, business management theory, pop culture, and plenty of relatable real-world examples, Why We Click explains why being "in sync," "in tune," "in step," and "on the same wavelength" are more than just turns of phrase. From the bedroom to the boardroom and beyond, Murphy reveals with characteristic curiosity, concision, and wit how our instinct to vibe with others drives much of our behavior and how our deepest desires-to be known, admired, loved, and connected-are so often thwarted in modern life." --That syncing feeling -- Love at first sync -- Bad apples -- Rockettes and military cadets -- Synchrony and social contagion -- Interoception -- Don't over-sync it -- Don't sync so close to me -- Emotional aperture and eye fucking -- I was just thinking about you -- Environmental and interspecies synchrony -- Synching with Shakespeare -- Synchrony and flow -- Stealing your sync.
Subjects: Interpersonal relations.;
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Talking across the divide : how to communicate with people you disagree with and maybe even change the world / by Lee, Justin,1977-author.;
Includes bibliographical references (pages 251-257)."America is more polarized than ever. Whether the issue is Donald Trump, healthcare, abortion, gun control, breastfeeding, or even DC vs Marvel, it feels like you can't voice an opinion without ruffling someone's feathers. In today's digital age, it's easier than ever to build walls around yourself. You fill up your Twitter feed with voices that are angry about the same issues and believe as you believe. Before long, you're isolated in your own personalized echo chamber. And if you ever encounter someone outside of your bubble, you don't understand how the arguments that resonate so well with your peers can't get through to anyone else. In a time when every conversation quickly becomes a battlefield, it's up to us to learn how to talk to each other again. In 'Talking across the divide,' social justice activist Justin Lee explains how to break through the five key barriers that make people resist differing opinions. With a combination of psychological research, pop-culture references, and anecdotes from Justin's many years of experience mediating contentious conversations, this book will help you understand people on the other side of the argument and give you the tools you need to change their minds--even if they've fallen for 'fake news.'"--Echo-chamber world -- But I can't talk to those people! -- The fourth tool -- How to prepare for a successful dialogue -- Shut up and listen -- The first barrier : ego protection. The villain's side of the story -- The second barrier : team loyalty. Challenging us-vs.-them mindsets -- When teams get tense -- Are you the problem? -- The third barrier : comfort. The power of your story -- The fourth barrier : misinformation. Fighting falsehood -- Why won't they accept the truth? -- An uplifting story--starring them -- The fifth barrier : worldview protection. Making the ask -- Reflection -- Hope for the future.
Subjects: Interpersonal conflict.; Interpersonal communication.; Interpersonal relations.;
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Social skills / by Ferrara, Miranda Herbert,1950-editor.; LaMeau, Michele P.,editor.; Gale (Firm);
Includes bibliographical references and index.Interpersonal communication skills -- Verbal or spoken -- Nonverbal -- Written and graphic communication -- Organizational, problem-solving and decision-making, and conflict resolution skills -- Getting organized and project management skills -- Problem solving and decision making -- Conflict resolution skills -- Entering the workplace : professional ethics, etiquette, and conduct -- Professional ethics -- Workplace etiquette and conduct -- Teamwork, collaboration, and leadership skills -- Teamwork skills and developing healthy team dynamics -- Negotiation skills -- Leadership skills.This book helps readers understand and hone the social skills necessary for success. Although the essays offer advice applicable to many aspects of life, the focus is primarily on the workplace. The essays guide readers in effective communication and conduct, emphasizing the characteristics of verbal, nonverbal, and written communication; stress the importance of ethics and etiquette; and provide tips for conflict resolution and teamwork.Description based on print version record.
Subjects: Social skills.; Interpersonal relations.;
On-line resources: https://libproxy.kirtland.edu/login?url=https://link.gale.com/apps/pub/8GNI/GVRL?sid=gale_marc&u=lom_kirtlandcc -- Available online. Click here to access.;
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Break up with narcissism : how to break free and stay free / by Kastner, Alina,author.authttp://id.loc.gov/vocabulary/relators/authttp://id.loc.gov/rwo/agents/n2025510467;
Includes bibliographical references and index.Introduction -- Part one: Identifying you're in a narcissistic's web. Unmasking the narcissist -- Recognizing the narcissist's abuse -- You are not crazy (even if you feel crazy right now) -- Part two: Navigating the storm. Trauma bonding -- How narcissistic abuse affects you -- Coping tools during the relationship -- Part three: Breaking free. Escaping from your hell -- What to expect when you leave -- Recovery after your breakup -- Part four: Staying free. Coping tools after the breakup -- Moving forward: Rising in love with yourself -- Love letters -- Resources -- Bibliography -- Acknowledgments -- About the author -- Index."There is no winning with a narcissistic partner -- and no one should have to play their game to survive. In Break Up with Narcissism, Dr. Alina Kastner, renowned systemic psychotherapist and expert in narcissistic relationships, delivers the ultimate guide to freeing yourself from narcissistic abuse. For anyone who feels trapped, hopeless, or broken in their relationship, this book offers a lifeline. With empathy and expert insight, Dr. Kastner exposes the damaging myths that promise change if you "just try harder" and replaces them with an accessible four-step framework: 1. Recognize the abuse dynamic 2. Protect your emotional health 3. Break free 4. Heal. Blending professional guidance with the compassionate tone of a nurturing friend, Break Up with Narcissism is the empowering roadmap to rediscovering your strength, your worth, and the joy of being fully yourself again. This is your beginning -- and your breakthrough." --
Subjects: Narcissism.; Narcissists.; Interpersonal relations.;
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Friends forever : how girls and women forge lasting relationships / by Degges-White, Suzanne.; Borzumato-Gainey, Christine.;
Includes bibliographical references (p. 261-273) and index.Friendship basics: an introduction -- Why Women Need Friends. The biology of friendship: to "tend and befriend" -- Friendship in context: social relationships in the twenty-first century -- "Friendology" : the science of friendship -- Friendship Chronology. Early childhood: first friends -- Adolescent friendships: seeking ourselves in our friends -- Emerging adulthood: decisions, decisions -- Coupled up, but no kids yet -- Motherhood: kids on board -- The midlife years: reconnecting with ourselves and seeking companions -- The long road home: community and friendship in older adulthood -- Making Friends, Starting With Yourself. Understanding who you are as a friend -- Roadblocks to friendships -- Taking a Census of Your Circle of Friends. Mapping out your friendscape -- Redesigning your social support landscape -- Finding new friends -- Strategies for Survival: Building And Maintaining Lasting Friendships. Building strong friendships from the beginning -- Tips to strengthen existing friendships -- Friendship in the digital age: technology keeps us connected, sometimes! -- Full-time friend, part-time lover: making friends with your mate -- Coming full circle with a circle of friends.From their biological and cultural origins to the varied manifestations of social connections, this book explores the deep bonds forged between women. By sharing stories from girls and women throughout their lives, the authors illustrate the roles that contemporary social relationships play at different stages in our lives while offering insights to deeper self-understanding and for finding, establishing, and sustaining relationships at any age. Through thick and thin and everything along the way, it is through friendships that we understand our lives. In this book, the authors not only explore the roles friendships play for girls and women over the course of a life, but offer a guide to finding new friends and enhancing current relationships. Using interviews with hundreds of women, spanning the ages of 4 to 94, this book provides readers with a contemporary perspective on female friendship. These personal stories, informed by the latest research on friendship, offer a rich and colotful picture that combines a life stage chronology of friendship with a guide for becoming the friend you would like to have while building strong friendships along the way.
Subjects: Female friendship.; Friendship.; Interpersonal relations.;
© c2011., Rowman & Littlefield Publishers,
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The dance of anger : a woman's guide to changing the patterns of intimate relationships / by Lerner, Harriet Goldhor.;
The Challenge of Anger -- Old Moves, New Moves, and Countermoves -- Circular Dances in Couples: When Getting Angry Is Getting Nowhere -- Anger at our Impossible Mothers: The Story of Maggie -- Using Anger as a Guide: The Road to a Clearer Self -- Up and Down the Generations: Katy and Her Aging Father -- Who's Responsible for What: The Trickiest Anger Question -- Thinking in Threes: Stepping Out of Family Triangles -- Tasks for the Daring and Courageous -- Epilogue: Beyond Self-Help.Based on the author's clinical experience and workshops she has introduced, this guide helps women understand the causes and patterns of their anger while providing specific alternatives for forging more powerful relationships.
Subjects: Anger.; Interpersonal relations.; Women;
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100 things we've lost to the internet / by Paul, Pamela,author.;
"The acclaimed editor of The New York Times Book Review takes readers on a nostalgic tour of the pre-Internet age, offering powerful insights into both the profound and the seemingly trivial things we've lost. Remember all those ingrained habits, cherished ideas, beloved objects, and stubborn preferences from the pre-Internet age? They're gone. To some of those things we can say good riddance. But many we miss terribly. Whatever our emotional response to this departed realm, we are faced with the fact that nearly every aspect of modern life now takes place in filtered, isolated corners of cyberspace-a space that has slowly subsumed our physical habitats, replacing or transforming the office, our local library, a favorite bar, the movie theater, and the coffee shop where people met one another's gaze from across the room. Even as we've gained the ability to gather without leaving our house, many of the fundamentally human experiences that have sustained us have disappeared. In one hundred glimpses of that pre-Internet world, Pamela Paul, editor of The New York Times Book Review, presents a captivating record, enlivened with illustrations, of the world before cyberspace-from voicemails to blind dates to punctuation to civility. There are the small losses: postcards, the blessings of an adolescence largely spared of documentation, the Rolodex, and the genuine surprises at high school reunions. But there are larger repercussions, too: weaker memories, the inability to entertain oneself, and the utter demolition of privacy. 100 Things We've Lost to the Internet is at once an evocative swan song for a disappearing era and, perhaps, a guide to reclaiming just a little bit more of the world IRL"--Introduction -- Boredom -- The period -- The know-it-all -- Getting lost -- Losing your ticket -- The meet-cute -- Bad photos -- Filing -- Ex-boyfriends -- Being late -- Benign neglect -- The designated driver -- The phone call -- Medical forms -- Uninhibitedness -- The school library -- Flea market finds -- High school reunions -- "They forgot my birthday" -- The phone in the kitchen -- The family meal -- Private humiliation -- The bookish boy -- Window shopping -- Solitude -- Productivity -- Letters to the editor -- Losing yourself in a show -- The Rolodex -- Relying on the doctor -- Being first -- Being the only one -- Birthday cards -- A good night's sleep -- Knowing the number -- The paper -- Unpopular opinions -- Solo travel -- paperwork -- Missed calls -- The Spanish-English dictionary -- Patience -- Ignoring people -- Dittos -- Seniority -- Looking out the window -- TV Guide -- Civility -- Receptionists -- Private observances -- Leaving a message -- Toys and games -- Maps -- Empathy -- Handwritten letters -- Old tech -- Being in the moment -- Spelling -- Record albums -- Wondering about the weather -- Bedtime reading -- The emergency breakthrough -- Your attention span -- Sleepaway camp -- RSVPs -- The social studies textbook -- Vacation -- The Filofax -- Eye contact -- Working independently -- Magazines -- Asking politely -- Airplane encounters -- Your checkbook -- Missing out -- Penmanship -- "Excuse me" -- Christmas letters -- Figuring out who that actor is -- Passing notes -- Sick days -- Secrets -- Card catalogs -- The college lecture -- Memory -- Movie theaters -- Losing the instruction manual -- The blind date -- The encyclopedia -- The new kid -- The view -- Scrabble tiles -- Humility -- Cliffsnotes -- A parent's undivided attention -- Touch-typing -- Photo albums -- Blocking things out -- Social cues -- Closure.
Subjects: Interpersonal relations.; Internet;
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The dark sides of empathy / by Breithaupt, Fritz,1967-author.; Hamilton, Andrew B. B.,translator.;
Includes bibliographical references (pages 229-264) and index.Self-loss -- Painting in black and white -- False empathy, filtered empathy -- Empathetic sadism -- Vampiristic empathy -- Epilogue : empathy between morality and aesthetics."Investigates the idea that empathy, often considered the basis for good actions, also motivates a wide range of terrible and cruel actions"--
Subjects: Empathy.; Social interaction.; Interpersonal relations.;
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Quiet : the power of introverts in a world that can't stop talking / by Cain, Susan.;
Includes bibliographical references (p. [277]-323) and index.The north and south of temperament -- The Extrovert Ideal. The rise of the "mighty likeable fellow" : how extroversion became the cultural ideal ; The myth of charismatic leadership: the culture of personality, a hundred years later ; When collaboration kills creativity: the rise of the new Groupthink and the power of working alone -- Your Biology, Your Self? Is temperament destiny? : nature, nurture, and the Orchid Hypothesis ; Beyond temperament: the role of free will (and the secret of public speaking for introverts) ; "Franklin was a politician, but Eleanor spoke out of conscience" : why cool is overrated ; Why did Wall Street crash and Warren Buffett prosper? : how introverts and extroverts think (and process dopamine) differently -- Do All Cultures Have an Extrovert Ideal? Soft power: Asian-Americans and the extrovert ideal -- How to Love, How to Work. When should you act more extroverted than you really are? ; The communication gap: how to talk to members of the opposite type ; On cobblers and generals: how to cultivate quiet kids in a world that can't hear them -- Wonderland -- A note on the words Introvert and Extrovert.This book demonstrates how introverted people are misunderstood and undervalued in modern culture, charting the rise of extrovert ideology while sharing anecdotal examples of how to use introvert talents to adapt to various situations. At least one-third of the people we know are introverts. They are the ones who prefer listening to speaking, reading to partying; who innovate and create but dislike self-promotion; who favor working on their own over brainstorming in teams. Although they are often labeled "quiet," it is to introverts that we owe many of the great contributions to society, from van Gogh's sunflowers to the invention of the personal computer. Filled with indelible stories of real people, this book shows how dramatically we undervalue introverts, and how much we lose in doing so. Taking the reader on a journey from Dale Carnegie's birthplace to Harvard Business School, from a Tony Robbins seminar to an evangelical megachurch, the author charts the rise of the Extrovert Ideal in the twentieth century and explores its far-reaching effects. She talks to Asian-American students who feel alienated from the brash, backslapping atmosphere of American schools. She questions the dominant values of American business culture, where forced collaboration can stand in the way of innovation, and where the leadership potential of introverts is often overlooked. And she draws on cutting-edge research in psychology and neuroscience to reveal the differences between extroverts and introverts. She introduces us to successful introverts, from a witty, high-octane public speaker who recharges in solitude after his talks, to a record-breaking salesman who quietly taps into the power of questions. Finally, she offers advice on everything from how to better negotiate differences in introvert-extrovert relationships to how to empower an introverted child to when it makes sense to be a "pretend extrovert." This book has the ability to permanently change how we see introverts and, equally important, how introverts see themselves.
Subjects: Introverts.; Introversion.; Extraversion.; Interpersonal relations.;
© c2012., Crown Publishers,
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